@Wetrix yeah, she also used to make me write pages of “I will not (whatever bad thing I did)” & then tape the pages on the front door so “everyone could see how bad” (her words) I’d been. When she took out Dad’s belt to whack me, I would start sobbing/begging not to be hit & she would laugh & say “oh come on, don’t be so dramatic” before I moved out, she still thought she made no mistakes raising me. So I have mixed feelings on this cancer news from Dad. :/