Because someone asked:

Yes, matter of fact I do want to completely abolish gender as a concept, and get rid of terms of gendered attraction

Because they are entirely obsoleted artifacts from a time when we considered gender to be much more strictly binary, and these terms made sense. They no longer do.

So, I would much prefer we create new frameworks and terms to describe personal expression, and sexual and/or romantic attractions.

The entire concept of "masculine" and "feminine" gets tossed out, and instead we should focus on attributes that are entirely independent of one's physiological build, which is essentially what we're already doing by adding all these new "edge cases" to our legacy model.

femininity and masculinity are individually perceived concepts. We may be told by others what they think it means, but that doesn't mean we have to agree with them, or that it's the one truth.

It's simply a vague set of ways you show yourself to others.

they are not intrinsic to anything, certainly not some fixed set of body types or behaviors.

Therefore terms like "lesbian" don't really mean anything at all.

So we can either get rid of them, and make new ones, or, shut the fuck up about them.

Because just because you don't perceive someone to match your idea of what lesbian means, doesn't mean they don't.