Seriously considering this for my next phone.
https://shop.fairphone.com/en/fairphone-3-plus
I'm between it with Android or Ubuntu Touch and one of the Pixels with GrapheneOS
I'm using /e/ for ~2 years and even contributed to it a bit. All listed controversies were basically about "they say degoogled, but not degoogled enough", mostly because LineageOS still has quite a lot of Google code in them. For example you can't remove Google 204 connectivity check... until you implement your own, which /e/ and GrapheneOS did, but LineageOS didn't. GrapheneOS developer is however an arrogant dick, so I've stopped using it and settled with /e/.