@greyor @emsenn That’s a super good attitude to have, and it helps cut through others’ anger. Though as probably many minorities would tell you, sometimes people say stuff like that because they just don’t like that ethnic group / gender for reasons that run deep. But that kind of attitude can work wonders, sometimes.
https://www.npr.org/2017/08/20/544861933/how-one-man-convinced-200-ku-klux-klan-members-to-give-up-their-robes