@hafnia Huh. Must be one of those Mastodon social norms I don’t understand. The difference between public and DM is literally just a different inbox from the recipient perspective. As someone weaned on Usenet decades ago, that’s difficult to relate to. Also please try not to come down too hard on me for not understanding what you were after, you did spend a bit of time in the weeds explaining how people who don’t know you personally mustn’t comment on your life, mansplaining, etc etc. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯