Sometimes you have to sit down yourself and honestly look into that mirror and ask your self "who's really in control of me? Do I control others or do they control me?"
People only have as much power over you as you give them
If you let someone affect your emotions, they are controlling you. You have given them control by letting them affect you, your emotions and state of mind.
Be aware of this. Do not let others control you because of your lack of SELF CONTROL.
Be aware. Be in control.